How to play
Read the two choices out loud and answer in under three seconds. Go around the group, or play in pairs and see how many answers you share. For a classroom version, students point left for the first choice and right for the second.
Game variations
- Speed round: answer 10 in a row as fast as you can.
- Match game: two friends answer at the same time and score a point for every match.
- Defend it: after each choice, give one reason in a single sentence.
More fun: would you rather, random question generator and the magic 8 ball.
Last reviewed October 2026.
Frequently asked questions
What is This or That?
A quick game where you choose between two options, like "Coffee or tea?" or "Beach or mountains?". You answer fast without overthinking, which makes it a great icebreaker.
How is it different from Would You Rather?
This or That uses short, everyday choices you can answer in a second. Would You Rather uses longer, more imaginative scenarios that lead to discussion.
Is it good for kids?
Yes. The kids category has simple, fun choices like "Dinosaurs or dragons?" that young children love.
Can I use this on social media?
Sure. Many people post This or That questions as stories or polls. Copy any question with the Copy button.
How many questions are there?
Over 50 pairs across everyday, personality and kids categories, dealt in random order without repeats until the list runs out.